Have you ever noticed we tend to say “now” and “later” to the wrong things?
We make tons of decisions every day. Part of that decision making process is deciding whether to do something about it “now” or “later.”
Category Archives: Relationships
What Do You Say to a Friend Who Says They Are Moving?
Why Your First Words Will Make or Break a Friendship
You’ve finally made a good friend. You’ve put the time, effort, and energy into being a friend and you were rewarded with a deep friendship. Then out of the blue they sit you down and tell you they’re moving.
What do you say? What you say will determine whether you keep your friend or whether you’ll drift apart after the move.
3 Easy Sentences that Will Improve Any Relationship
We all struggle from time to time communicating with those we love the most. As the hurt starts to pile up we begin to say and hear everything through that filter of pain. The way forward seems so complicated and impossible we can reach the point of giving up entirely.
What if the solution isn’t as complicated as you think? What if the answer was just a few basic sentences made up of only 2 words?
2 Words That Are Impossible To Say
Certain words in the English language I have a hard time saying correctly. It takes a lot of focus for me to say “pin” and “pen.” I literally have to say “hen” in my mind before I verbally say “pen.”
Numerous other words sound the same to me, like ten/tin and steal/still. The worst is heal/hill/he’ll. Imagine trying to deliver a message which includes “Jesus can heal your broken heart. He’ll never let you down. No matter what hill you’re facing.” Nightmare!
A Thought on Making America Great Again
I haven’t met anyone who is thrilled about our choices for this presidential election. You might be the exception, but the passion just doesn’t seem to be there for either side.
What troubles me is that we are no longer just skeptical. We’ve become distrusting, fearful, and now cynical. And the cynicism is growing.
How Many Family Vacations Do You Have Left?
Making Sure You Are Investing for the Future
Have you ever considered how many family vacations you have left? If you have young kids you’re probably thinking you just want a vacation!
When your kids are toddlers vacations are difficult. They need a nap so it’s hard to go places for any length of time. Sand gets in their eyes, swim diaper, and food, which makes everyone miserable. If you can scrape up the money and energy for a vacation it’s usually spent visiting family.
Should Christians Be The Morality Police
5 Questions to Ask Before You Speak Up
Have you ever felt judged before? It’s the worst feeling in the world, especially when you feel like the crusader for morality doesn’t know the whole story.
My wife drives a suburban. It takes some backbone to admit that here in New York. I know some of you are already judging my family. 🙂 “How could you drive such an environmentally destructive vehicle? Don’t you care for God’s creation?”
5 Dumb Things Christians Believe About Forgiveness
Forgiveness is hard, but what if you are making it even harder than it has to be?
What if the way you’ve been practicing forgiveness is harmful to you and others?
Thinking About Moving?
4 Actions That Will Ensure You Keep More Friends
Have you ever thought about moving from where you currently live?
If so, how you handle the time leading up to your move will make a big difference for you, your friends, and even your legacy.
You Asked For It
Why You Aren't Getting What You Need
Is there something that you think you need but just aren’t getting it? Maybe you need more emotional support with a situation you’re going through. Maybe you need more time with your spouse than what you’re currently receiving. Maybe it’s a different job or role at your company. Maybe you need a mentor or a friend but neither seem to be happening.
The longer you go without what you need a low grade fever of anger seems to develop. Before you know it you’ll have the dreaded disease of bitterness.
